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September 8th marked 6 months since arriving to Ukraine, or “in-country” to use PC lingo.

In many ways, I feel like I just arrived. I think often “I just started, I have so much more time,” to begin projects in my community. At my school, my novelty hasn’t worn off. It was still cold when we arrived, but now we’ve made it through our first summer without A/C. And by the numbers, 22% seems like a big portion to be done with.

But sometimes, I feel like I’ve been here forever. When I think about the things that just seem normal to me, or when I manage to get by on my limited Ukrainian. When I think about the friends I’ve made, it doesn’t seem real I’ve only known them for six months. In a few days, my group won’t be the ‘babies’ anymore – and somehow we’re supposed to give them advice.When I remember that I’ll be 25 when I come home, and have two more birthdays, Christmases, Easters, etc. But six months seems the longest when I think about the last time I saw my family and friends and when I think about the next time I will see them.

So…what has changed in six months?

  • I go by Sasha now. Sasha is the nickname for Alexandra here and I love it! This will please all of you that have insisted my name is too long over the years!
  • I have caved to European pressure and now drink carbonated water.
  • I frequently use phrases that are exactly correct English, but are the closest translation to what Ukrainians say, for example, “to have a rest.”
  • Life is much more laid back, so I need to “have a rest” often.
  • I speak in a mess of ‘Ukrain-glish.’
  • I have said many times tea is just leaf water. Now I drink a few cups a day.
  • I like onions now.
  • I crave borsch.
  • Stranger danger is no longer a concept in my life. (these stories coming soon)
  • Sitting on the corner of a table, having wet hair, and putting an empty bottle on the table are all major stressors in my life.
  • I can usually tell the difference between when people are speaking Russian and Ukrainian.
  • I have realized that there are many, many things about the English language that are very confusing. A lifelong mumbler, I now speak very clearly and slowly…until I get around other Americans and it becomes a jumbled mess.

I’m sure there are other things, but what’s most different, is at some point, Ukraine started to feel like home. I know that’s corny – deal with it.

summer sixteen

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Summer 2016: A Reflection

 

 

June

On June 1st, all of the newly sworn-in Peace Corps volunteers departed Kyiv for their two year sites all over Ukraine. My site is Sokyriany (Сокиряни) in the Chernivet’ska oblast, located in southwest Ukraine, right on the border of Moldova. (Seriously, I can walk there.)IMG_0475

Right when I arrived, my school was in the midst of their English language camp. SchoIMG_0326ols were required as part of the “Year of English” to have a camp for their students at the end of the year. Honestly, I was pretty overwhelmed from the combination of a new town and meeting all the new students, but it was a really great experience. I worked primarily with the 5th and 11th forms.

For three weeks, the 5th form focused on cities. They learned about places around a city, such as a library or church, transportation, and directions. This culminated with the students creating their own mini city in the school. We used this to role play asking for directions and getting around town. The students were very creative and I was very impressed by them. They also had a lot of questions for me, including, but not limited to: are you married? how old are you? do you like coconuts? do you know how to sweep? do you have a dog?

Later in June, I went to a team-teaching seminar in Kyiv with my counterpart, Luda. Our counterparts are the ones we deal with primarily for life at site. They help us with everything from registering in our city to all work related tasks. For TEFL volunteers, they are also who we team-teach with. The seminar was interesting, but honestly the best part was getting a chance to relax and catch up with other volunteers whom I hadn’t seen since arriving to site. After spending 10-12 hours a day with the same five people every day for three months, it was weird to not have them around.

July

For the first month, we were not allowed to leave our new sites in order to help with IMG_0417adjustment and integration into our new communities. But after that, we were free to travel within the country on the weekends or for any work related travel.

In the beginning of July, I got the chance to work at my first overnight camp. This was a big deal because my mom never let me go to camp when I was little. The camp was called
Camp Big Bang , and was always a Peace Corps run camp until the evacuation of volunteers in 2014. This year it was brought back. It is an English language camp for the 2nd-11th forms. The kids were split into teams named after the planets, and competIMG_0375ed for points at a variety of different stations. I ran Arts & Crafts along with another volunteer, Erin. Resources were limited, but we did some really fun activities like lear13680268_3623417660096_3814340549930077708_oning the ‘cups’ song from Pitch Perfect, making cootie catchers, writing haikus, and making banners to cheer on their teams for sports. Not only did I have a lot of fun, but I learned a lot about all that goes into planning and running a camp.

August

I knew August was going to be a crazy month, both from what I already had planned to all that I needed to prepare before school started.

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13901521_10210306549883064_7128518583323127888_nThe next day, I went to Chernivtsi to help another volunteer, Nicole, with a seminar. Nicole works at the teacher training institute in Chernivtsi. This seminar discussed how to create lesson plans based on students’ needs and learning styles. It lasted five days,, and I think that we learned as much as we were teaching! It was a really cool opportunity to meet with some of the teachers from my oblast and see what their wants, needs, and challenges are. If you were wondering, Ukrainian teachers have many of the same issues as American schools – like how to prepare students for standardized tests. We recieved a lot of positive feedback, and I am eager to incorporate these techniques in my own school and pass along the knowledge to teachersIMG_0723.

From there, I traveled to Ivano-Frankivsk to meet up with Laura and Dray. Fellow PCVs Rob and Thomas live in the city, so they were nice enough to show us around. It was really nice to relax after an action-packed week and see even more of the country.

After this, I went back to Sokyriany for only one day before heading to our In-Service Training (IST). I again went with my counterpart, Luda, to a city called Irpin outside of Kyiv. During the IST, we had many chances to hear about what the other TEFL volunteers had been doing at their sites over the summer. I got a lot of new ideas which I am eager to try out for myself. A highlight was seeing two of my teachers from PST, Natasha and Inna. We spent so much time together in PST, but now we rarely get to see each other. I’m eternally grateful to all the PC staff, who are incredibly supportive and our biggest cheerleaders. Aside from teaching us how to be teachers and speak Ukrainian, they acted as our fearless leaders in all cultural situations – from how to figure out the right size tights, what to wear to school, and warning us against whistling inside. (You’ll whistle all your money away) Victoria, Natasha, and Inna were really my first Ukrainian friends, and it’s a bond I think I’ll cherish forever. Wow that was sappy. Anyway, I was just really happy to see them okay!!

After our IST, Katie and I decided to stay in Kyiv for the weekend for one last hurrah of IMG_0796summer. Basically that entailed eating a lot of food. It was really the first time we had been in Kyiv without a schedule or any obligations, so it was nice to finally spend a relaxing weekend in the city. We took a Korean cooking class, where naturally we were cutting and doing everything wrong so the chef intervened. It was delicious though!

We also went to a cat cafe. Well, what we thought waIMG_0827s a cat cafe.
There were cats, obviously, but also a turtle, a chinchilla, and  A RACCOON. I think my first moment of true culture shock was that everyone acted like this was totally normal and that it wasn’t a gross dumpster dweller. Also, it scratched me and drew blood so I probably have some sort of rare raccoon related disease now. If PC medical office is reading this, I’m totally kidding.

Which brings us to now! School officially started September 1st, although I did have one last summer send off this past weekend at the Respublica music festival. Now it’s time to buckle down and get into the school year and start working on some projects I’ve been planning. More about the first days of school…when I get around to it.

Words from the Unwise

So, this post is inspired by the great Eliza Hokanson. I thought it was a great idea to share a little bit of my knowledge with the incoming group(s).

I will now impart my knowledge on you and pretend like I have all the answers.

Packing

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Packing for two years was one of the most torturous experiences of my life. I also waited until two days before. I do not recommend this route. I read all the lists from other volunteers, and though they were helpful, you really need to know yourself. Yeah, Ukrainian women wear heels every day. I really don’t understand how they do it. But, if you know you won’t wear them, don’t bring them! I was really worried about not standing out, but honestly, you’re going to stand out anyway.

I felt a lot of pressure to be a super PC volunteer and bring like a backpack and 2 shirts because I didn’t want to look ~materialistic~. But ultimately my hoarder side won out. I brought two large suitcases, which were both over the weight limit (I wasn’t charged, but your results may vary), a school size backpack, and a ‘weekender’ size duffel bag. I’m going to be honest and say it was a pain in the ass lugging everything through the airport, but I am mostly happy with everything I brought. I am also lazy and hate doing laundry, these things are probably correlated.

What I wish I hadn’t brought:
I realized that I basically own 5 shirts that look almost the same and brought them all.
A lady suit, I’ve never worn it, probably because unlike my girl Hillary I can’t pull it off.
Assorted OTC medicines like Tylenol. The medical kit you get is HUGE and contains everything you need, and you get unlimited refills. (exception-good cold medicine, non-drowsy allergy pills, an ice pack, and I’m not a huge fan of their band-aids.)
I may have brought one less flannel shirt. I brought four.

What I wish I had brought:
FOOD. This may be because I’m six months in, but I underestimated how much I would want a Reese’s. American candy like starbursts is also a really good thing to pass out to students or host families.
More ‘American’ stuff like flags, maps, puzzles, etc. for my school.
COLLEGE RULED NOTEBOOKS.
More dresses, I wear dresses pretty much every day. They always look nice and youhavetowashthemlessoften.
Dramamine/Motion sickness patches. I used to get car sick, although I think my body has adapted past this by realizing it would ruin my life. That’s an exaggeration. Kind of. The roads are realllllllly bad, and bus drivers drive really fast and aggressively. If you ever get motion sickness, I would recommend bringing some, just in case.
Cheap hangers. Hangers are somewhat difficult to find and are more expensive than in America.
One of those rechargeable phone battery things. Public transportation doesn’t have outlets, and this would be useful for overnight travel.
More make-up/skincare. I’ll touch on this later, but makeup is pretty expensive on a PC budget.
A flash drive with a lot of space (not an external hard drive)
Shoe polish/newer shoes. I’m a firm believer in “new chucks look weird,” but that is NOT the case in Ukraine. Clean shoes are a must.
GOOD QUALITY Umbrella. Again, pricy on PC budget, and there was an incident where my friend’s umbrella broke because of the wind and hit a woman in the face.
Rain boots. It rained a lot when we first got here, and I stepped in a lot of puddles while wearing flats.

What I’m happy I brought:
Ice cube trays. You can get them in some places here, but ice is not popular.
Blue tooth speaker. This is really good for listening exercises in your classes when you record your own dialogues, as well as playing videos off your computer. Not all (or even most) classrooms have projectors so you may need to show videos on your computer.
Pillow and blanket. It’s nice to have something from home, and it fit pretty small in my suitcase by using vacuum bags.
Sticky tack. You can’t get it here, and I used it in place of tape a lot. You can also use it to hang things in your room. I’d recommend bringing extra because I’ve had teachers ask to use it.
Good slippers. Everything you’ve read had told you about slipper culture, but it’s real life, and I wear them a LOT.
Tights. I wore tights or nylons pretty much every day until the middle of end of May. They can be a little pricy on the PC budget, and the sizing is a little confusing. I’d bring some good quality ones that you know fit.
Resusable water bottle. In PST, you can’t drink the tap water. I would buy huge jugs of water and refill them rather than buying a new water bottle every day.
Extra phone chargers. I tend to break them a lot.
Colored pencils/other art supplies. I have used them a lot so far in my classes.
A lot of socks/underwear. I think this is self explanatory.
A watch. I’m not a huge watch wearer in America, but it’s really useful when teaching and much more professional than checking your phone for time.

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Your students will inevitably be much more stylish/way cooler than you

Advice on clothes, make-up, skincare, etc.

Admittedly, I’m kind of a diva. Which I guess isn’t really what you think of when you think of “Peace Corps,” but my best advice is to stop caring about what you think is the model volunteer. There is a huge range of people here, and everyone has their own experience as a volunteer. Just because you like certain makeup or shampoo doesn’t mean you’re less of a volunteer than someone else. If you have these things as part of your routine in America, it can help you retain a sense of normalcy when everything in your life just changed dramatically.

If you’re like me, you’re also in luck because Ukrainian women care a lot about their appearance. I don’t mean this in a bad way, but Ukrainian women always look flawless (and leaves me feeling like a potato.) It’s true that women will wear dresses and heels just to go to the grocery store. I also haven’t met any or very many Ukrainian women who don’t wear makeup every day. So, if you’re feeling like a diva when you’re packing, don’t. Here are some beauty related things I can say regarding my experiences:

Skin
I have super sensitive skin, and I can’t use a lot of scented lotions or many makeup products. Because of this, I didn’t want to take chances (or spend the money) by trying all these new products. I brought many things from home, which I know work for me and would last a while. My skin is pretty acne prone, especially in new environments/water. It has been difficult for me to find a variety of products that have salicylic acid in them, although they have some Clean n Clear products here. Again, this stuff is expensive. If you have something that really works for you, I encourage you to bring extra, if you have the room. As for body lotion, I use Johnson & Johnson baby lotion, which you can get here, but they have a big variety.

Hair
My hair tends to be pretty oily, and when I did my study abroad I struggled a lot to find something that worked. After six months, my hair is just now adjusting to being able to use conditioner again. Some brands you can get here are Herbal Essences, Garnier, and Head and Shoulders. What I use, and am obsessed with, are Lush shampoo bars. They last me about two or three months, and are easy to pack when travelling. They have Lush locations in Kyiv and Lviv, so you’ll likely be able to go there during your service if you find something you like. I’d be careful of bringing any dryers/curlers/straighteners, because you might blow them up, and they aren’t too expensive here. Leaving the house with wet hair is a no-no here, so I’m very happy I bought a hair dryer.

Make-Up
Makeup here is really expensive! I definitely wish I had brought more concealer or foundation that matched my skin. They have Maybelline and Covergirl here, but I have found the products are different. Foundation and mascara are two I wish I would’ve brought more of, because the price makes it difficult to experiment with different products. Ukrainian women’s makeup always looks flawless, but don’t feel pressure to become a makeup artist. I will say that people will probably comment if you don’t wear makeup, or what someone else deems as ‘enough.’ They aren’t trying to be rude, they just want you to look your best all the time.

Clothes

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Here’s an example of an outfit that I wear a lot

I felt like I brought a lot of clothes, but as I mentioned before, I would have either brought more variety or simply less clothes. Ukrainians tend to invest in clothes rather than have a lot of them, and repeating outfits often isn’t taboo. So, rather than bringing three similar black shirts, I would’ve either brought more colors or just the one. Ukrainian women are super trendy and fashionable, so I would say pack things that look nice rather than what Americans think of traditionally business casual. This is just my experience. The teachers at my school during training and at site wore a lot of skirts and dresses.

However, I think the most important thing to consider when packing is if you’ll actually wear it. I will probably never be a heel wearer, so I didn’t bring any, but women here usually wear heels or wedges. You only have so much space, so don’t change your style just because you think that’s what people do here. People at your school are going to know you’re the American anyway, so as long as you look nice, don’t overthink it. I’d also consider bringing a nice bag that is big enough to bring your notebooks and materials in. People here don’t really use backpacks, except for students, and wearing one on a crowded marshrutka can be a pain.

(I’d be happy to answer any specific questions you have over Facebook or email!)

Your Last Few Weeks

For me, the thought that I was leaving didn’t really seem real until I got o

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When you first arrive, your face will probably look something like this.

n the plane. Staging is a blur and saying goodbye to all your family and friends is sad and stressful. I felt like I had to fit everyone in and still had to do all this packing and preparing.

The only advice I can give is to relax and just go with it. If you’re freaking out, that’s totally normal. Before I arrived, I felt like no one was as nervous as me. It’s normal to have second thoughts and question your decisions – you’re leaving everything for two years!It’s normal to feel guilty about leaving people or about things you know you’re going to miss back home. For me, that immense fear subsided as soon as I got on the plane and there was no turning back. Maybe that’s not the most helpful advice, but it’s all I’ve got. Also, no one is going to judge you if you cry.

PST is a hell of a ride. It’s crazy busy, but by the end I felt ready to go to site. I felt I had learned enough language to survive and I learned how to be a teacher (I had never taught before.) I’ll be honest and say I didn’t study any Ukrainian before I arrived, not even the alphabet. That was probably a mistake, but it worked out fine. I was really embarrassed when I first got to the arrival retreat around all these people that seemingly knew all these words, but I now realize they just learned basic phrases. If you can learn thank you, please, good day, excuse me, it’ll get you far. But, don’t stress out about language learning before getting here. You’ll be in class four hours a day for three months and you will learn A LOT.

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One of our weekly schedules from PST

Well, this has turned into a novel, so I’ll stop there. Again, feel free to contact me with any questions, and good luck! You’re going to love it.

981.6 Miles

You may read the title of this post and think it will be a heart warming reflection about the distance from my friends and family. You would be wrong. This post is about something else I miss with my whole heart, Chipotle. The nearest Chipotle is in Frankfurt, which according to Google Maps is a 17 hour drive, or since I’m not allowed to drive, a 303 hour walk.

After spying some peppers that looked spicy at the bazaar last weekend, I decided to make a burrito bowl, Ukrainian style.

STEP 1: Gather your ingredientsIMG_0521.JPG

Since there’s no Kroger in Ukraine, this takes time, effort, and poor language skills.

You will need:

Rice

Chicken, purchased by pointing and saying “one.” Price will be a surprise. Forget a bag so look strange carrying a chicken breast in a plastic bag down the street. To my PC friends, the word for chicken breast does not translate to chicken chest, as Google translate would suggest.

Peppers, the yellowish white ones they sell at the bazaar

Other peppers, ones I pointed at and asked ‘hot?’, and was told yes.

Onion

Can of corn

TACO SEASONING that your loving parents sent you from America

Tomatoes, which I forgot to buy and had to ask my host mom for

Parsley, picked from my backyard because it bares a resemblance to cilantro

(Beans are optional because I forgot to buy them)

 

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First, figure out how to work your gas stove. This may take 2-3 weeks before you ask your host family and they tell you the gas switch is on the wall. Panic about lighting your hand on fire every time.

Burn rice because options on stove are ‘lots of fire’ and ‘less fire.’

 

 

IMG_0524STEP 3: Make Salsa

First, google a recipe for Pico de Gallo. Realize you can actually kind of make it. Rejoice.

Cut up the tomatoes and onion into whatever size you want. Cut up the hot pepper into really small pieces. Curse self for nail-biting as your fingers burn. Blame tears on cutting onions. Add some salt. Pretend the recipe didn’t call for lime juice.

Optional: Mush everything together with a potato masher to make it more salsa-like.

 

STEP 4: The Good Stuff

Cut your chicken into Chipotle sized pieces. Cook until done, then add the whitish peppers and onions. Realize you forgot to wash your knife between cutting the chicken and the vegetables, say a silent prayer you don’t get salmonella. Cook that until the onions are clear. Get oil burns while adding vegetables because the stove is too hot. Add corn.

Cook until the oil has mostly cooked off because you left dirty dishes and the sink and can’t drain it. Then add some water and TACO SEASONING!!! Cover and simmer until the water is gone and it smells real taco-y.

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Realize this took you so long to make that it’s only two hours before dinner. Eat anyway. Take an unappetizing looking photo.

VERDICT:

7/10

Enjoyable, but no Chipotle. Parsley and cilantro are vastly different.

The Good, the Bad, and the Ugly

So, as you can see I’ve caved and decided to start a blog. I was hesitant after a failed study abroad blog attempt, but I have things to say and Peace Corps tells me this is a good way to handle stress.

To get you up to speed, I present the good, the bad, and the ugly of my first four months in Ukraine.

The Good:

  • The people. I am 100% certain I would not be here without the incredible support system I’ve acquired in my short time here. The people I’ve met, both American and Ukrainian are some of the kindest people I’ve ever met.
  • Ukrainians. Every day I’m floored by the generosity and welcoming nature of Ukrainian people. There is a concept of ‘the inner circle’ in Ukraine, and that once you’re in, you’re family – and you do anything for family. In my experience, it is completely true and every day I’m more and more floored by the size of the hearts of the people I meet.
  • Teaching/Students. Good news! I like teaching! I was super nervous as I had never taught before, but I find it really enjoyable and fulfilling. My students are adorable and have a real desire to learn. Also, surprise, turns out I like kids.
  •  The food. Somehow everyone in this country looks like a supermodel, but I don’t understand how. Ukrainians can cook…and this being the breadbasket of Europe results in some incredible baked goods. There are a ton of fruits and vegetables, fresh at the local market, and in my own backyard. Minor exception: google “holodets.”
  • Language. Turns out I’m not that bad at Ukrainian. I understand a lot and people only laugh at me about half the time I speak!

The Bad:

  • Boredom. School starts September 1st, I arrived June 1st. I’ve been doing a lot of reading.
  • Homesickness. Perhaps it’s being separated from new friends, or because I’ve had a lot of time to think recently, but I’ve been pretty homesick. Being 5,000 miles away for Stella’s bachelorette party, or hearing about my family all together is hard. There’s no other way to put it.
  • Loneliness. After arriving to site, I realized I’m a bit more isolated than many of my friends, like being 2 hours from the nearest train station. It makes travel hard and complicated. Also, it turns out making friends with people who don’t speak your language is somewhat difficult.

The Ugly:

  • Me after eating the entire pack of Oreos my parents sent me in two days.

 

I’ll get in to more detail about all of these things soon, but there’s the summary for now. Gotta keep people on the edge of their seat.

xoxo

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